I’d like to talk to you. Not to yell at you, or call you out, or swear at you, but to explain my position and why this hurt me. And while a notable part of me wants to doxx you to my vegan friends (and maybe send you a picture of a dead puppy, because you’re such an “animal lover”), I won’t. I have respect for you and your feelings, and I don’t want to hurt you.
I am vegan (meaning that I abstain from consuming animals or their byproducts, wearing their skin or fur, or contributing to animal suffering in any way) because I believe that all beings, human or otherwise, who are sentient and can feel pain (x, x) and emotion have the inalienable right to live a life free from suffering. This includes pets like dogs and cats, livestock animals like pigs, cows, and chickens, and wildlife.
To me, and to many others, the thought of killing these animals for a frivolous reason is abhorrent. To you, this may seem like nothing more than a part of your day-to-day life, but to me, it is on par with systematic murder. I became vegan because my eyes were opened to the cruelty that these animals continue to face, and the fact that you and many other continue to trivialize that can be extremely hurtful. While vegans are most definitely not an oppressed group, our beliefs are often criticized in extreme ways; ranging from trollish comments to violence. Naturally, it’s hard not to become emotional about this–after all, what you are so vehemently protesting against is what we consider to be basic rights.
So naturally, I was upset when you sent me that picture with your personalized caption. I have a personal stake in the lives of these animals, just like you have a personal stake in the life of your dogs. You feel about the practice of eating dogs in events such as the Yulin Dog Festival like I feel about the practice of eating pigs in everyday life. These two animals are actually very similar: pigs are playful and sweet, they can learn their own names and do tricks for treats just like dogs, and they do love pets and cuddles from people. In fact, they lead lives of such social complexity only rivaled by primates.
I do hope that you consider how this may make your recipient feel the next time you send one of these to an activist. If I can spare you the basic decency of not sending you a dead dog photo, maybe you can do the same for me and stop sending these pictures.